” Good marriages don’t just happen by luck or by accident”.

A good marriage is the result of a lot of hard work. It is a union of 2 imperfect people that refuse to give up on each other.

One of my favorite quotes is
“A successful marriage requires you falling in love many times, with the same person

As a child we read fairy tales where the princess finds her prince charming and lives happily ever after. They will live in a castle and have perfect children and be the perfect little family. The end. No one tells you that that’s not how it is in real life. 

Marriage truths….

Marriages are hard work. No one tells you that there will be good days and bad days. That your marriage will take work, that there will be days that you will question if prince charming is really prince charming or if the sweet princess is really the evil step sister. No one tells you that your castle might be a tiny apartment, that you will not be singing songs dancing around in a forest or that chances are that the toad is not prince charming and that after the kiss he will more likely still be a toad.

At the end of the day when you are feeling discouraged remember you have lived a very different life from your spouse. You might have the same main core values but your experiences and how things affect you is different. Don’t give up on your marriage. Work on it.

Remember these truths

  • Don’t go to bed angry
  • Communicate
  • Words hurt, once you say something you can not take it back
  • Spend time together have regular date nights
  • Laugh together
  • Remember why you fell in love
  • Be respectful of each other
  • Have mutual friends

Good Reads…..

101 Things I wish I Knew When I Got Married: Simple Lessons To Make Love Last

 

 

101 Things I Wish I Knew When I Got Married – Read
this book by Linda and Charlie Bloom to learn simple
lessons to make love last.

 

 

 

“In every disagreement in marriage, remember this one important truth: Your spouse is your partner; NOT your enemy. You will either
win together or lose together”

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